Two women have come into the library. From my seat facing the reading room, I watch as the younger woman deposits the older in a comfortable chair by the magazine racks. While I don’t know for sure, I surmise they are mother and daughter, not caregiver and charge. There is something about the way the younger woman heads over to browse the nearby new releases that tells me this visit is for her.
The mother, as I will call her, is quite elderly, at least in her 80s if not 90s. She sits quietly. She doesn’t flip through one of the many magazines on offer, doesn’t even seem to notice her surroundings.
The minutes click on, and the mother stares at nothing. Is she lost in her own thoughts, reliving another time in her life? Or is she just looking ahead to the mug of cocoa and plate of Fig Newtons that await her return home?
Suddenly, and it is sudden, there is a small crack in the mother’s patience. Continue reading “Surprise! Aging Is Happening to Me”



January 20, 2017
Not long ago I decided to clear out my bookcases. To say that I have been slow to do this is an understatement. I’d kept pretty much every book I’d ever owned. Every textbook from my college days. Every business book from my years in corporate America. Books inscribed with tender words from boyfriends of my youth, men now old enough to be grandfathers. But, reluctantly accepting the popular notion that you have to let go of the old to allow new things to find you, I thought, okay, it’s time.
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